Home Groups
Home groups are a vital part of church life at Christ Church Queensferry.
Each Wednesday, groups of church members meet in one another’s homes to open God’s word together, reflect on the previous Sunday’s sermon passage, and pray for one another. These smaller settings help us grow in faith, deepen relationships, and live out the Christian life side by side.
Once you become a member of Christ Church Queensferry, we’ll gladly connect you with a group leader who will welcome you into their home group.
Why are home groups for members only?
You may have wondered:
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Isn’t that a bit unwelcoming?
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​Why can’t I attend home groups before becoming a member?
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Can I go to one church on Sundays and another for home groups?
These are good and understandable questions. Different churches take different approaches, so here’s why we do what we do.
1. Membership reflects the Bible’s vision for church community
We live in a culture that often treats commitment with suspicion and prizes individual choice above all else. That mindset can easily spill into church life—wanting the benefits of community without the responsibility, accountability, and shared commitment that Scripture calls us to.
But the New Testament paints a very different picture.
There are 59 “one another” commands in the New Testament, including:
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“Love one another…” (John 13:34)
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“Be devoted to one another…” (Romans 12:10)
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“Accept one another…” (Romans 15:7)
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“Encourage one another daily…” (Hebrews 3:13)
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“Offer hospitality to one another…” (1 Peter 4:9)
These commands assume a clearly defined community—a local church made up of people who have committed themselves to one another.
The word translated church (ekklesia) literally means “the called‑out ones.” In Acts 2, those who responded to the gospel were baptised and added to their number. Someone knew who belonged to the church and who didn’t. Later, Paul even instructs Timothy to maintain specific lists within the church (1 Timothy 5).
Throughout the New Testament, churches are described as:
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one flock
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one body with many members
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a household
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a temple
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a building joined together
Each image emphasises unity, belonging, and mutual commitment—not a loose collection of individuals dipping in and out.
2. Home groups depend on trust, commitment, and shared responsibility
Our home groups are places where members share deeply, pray honestly, and support one another through the joys and struggles of life. That kind of openness requires a shared commitment—knowing that everyone in the room has promised to walk together as part of the same church family.
Allowing people who are not yet members to move in and out of these groups can unintentionally hinder that openness. Membership provides clarity, safety, and a foundation of trust.
3. We want to care for people wisely
We love welcoming newcomers on Sundays, and we want everyone exploring faith or considering joining our church to feel at home. But we also want to care well for our members by protecting the spaces where they share their lives most vulnerably.
For that reason, we believe it’s wise to wait until someone becomes a member before they join a home group or begin serving in ministries.
If you’d like to explore membership, you can find out more on our
Membership page.
In summary
Different churches structure their home groups in different ways, and that’s okay. This is simply the approach we believe best reflects Scripture’s vision for committed, accountable, joyful church life.
If you have any questions, we’d love to chat. Speak to
one of the elders on a Sunday or get in touch through
our contact form.